5 Things A Submissive Needs To Need

5 Things A Submissive Needs To Need

As a lifestyle and professional Mistress and dominatrix, I always acknowledge that My subs have needs. But do you know at least 5 things a submissive needs to need? While you’re busy focusing on pleasing Me and catering to My desires, that will not leave your needs ignored.

The Need To Share Your Failures and Successes

Many of My phone sessions go far beyond pure BDSM training. Kinksters, subs and fetishists alike open up to Me like to no one else in their lives. This maybe difficult for you, for many actually. In part, this takes time but sensual sleep hypnosis has often helped many as a therapy for feeling more at ease communicating with One they so greatly admire.

I take a great interest in your successes, failures, highs and lows. Although I am a quite strict dominatrix, I am a caring, loving and nurturing woman as well. After all, if I don’t look after My property, who will? Imagine what My home would be like if I simple disregard it’s up-kept. Pure chaos, a disaster. As you would be too. And you’re only a man, after all.

The Need For Understanding

you will always need to be clear and concise with your thoughts, issues and concerns. And be consistent with expressing yourself to Me, often. Even though I am your primary focus, you need to feel safe, accepted for your lifestyle choices and kinks and well defined limits. When W/we have an understanding of O/one another, it only makes O/our bond that much stronger.

So naturally you will grow through Me as a submissive being. I will challenge you, raise the bar and occasionally leave you to work through your own faults and shortcomings. your limits will be expanded and My expectations will surely rise, but always in a safe and sane manner. Understand this as I come to better understand you.

The Need For Growth and Encouragement

Unlike in christianity, in Goddess worship, there is no bible to study. My actions and words to you will be your guide. I will teach you how to better serve Me. I may or may not reward all good behavior but I will encourage you always to do better than your current best in every aspect of life. And although I punish you when you fail Me, you will feel a sense of forgiveness when I do scold you. Sounds odd I bet.

I will correct you often and may even make you feel more inadequate, but that’s just a part of training. For now, you ARE inadequate. And not making that clear will only confuse you in the long run and set you up for constant failure. I will become teacher, mentor and disciplinarian. you will be expected to have set goals in your servitude to Me and I will be there every step of the way, watching.

A simple gesture like a slight nod of approval will be reassurance that you are on the right path to pleasing Me. your contributions to O/our D/s relationship will give you a grand sense on fulfillment. Pass or fail, you will learn as much from your numerous mistakes as you do from your small victories. One step at a time, monk.

What will be on your next personal list of 5 things a submissive needs to need?

The Goddess Mya Kulpa